I called W and left a voicemail yesterday. She has gone to not answering her phone, or apparently even returning my calls. I called her to arrange a time to exchange vehicles, so I left an upbeat voicemail expressing wanting to get this accomplished in the next couple of days. No call back or email as of yet.

At the original BD, she gave me a handwritten letter in which she stated she wanted us to be able to "communicate effectively" throughout this process. She's not holding up her end of the bargain. I am just killing her with kindness at this point. I washed, waxed, armor all'ed, Rain-x'ed the windows, vacuumed inside and out and put on tire shine on her car to give back to her. I have been nothing but cordial and positive throughout her quest to rid herself of me and it seems like she is getting colder.

Is anyone else experiencing this phenomena or have a theory on what's going on here? I'm really not sure what to think.

I asked her how I could best pray for her during this time, and her response was "pray that the process continues to go smoothly." How audacious! This once loving woman didn't even ask how she could pray for me back. My W was the most caring loving woman before, it seems like her heart has turned to stone. I don't think I'm doing anything to provoke this attitude.

Thoughts?


H: 29
WAXW: 30

Bomb Drop- 9/9/13
Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14
D Final- 5/21/14
XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14