I don't know how much of a 'truth dart' it will be actually. It has zero to do with the relationship, and it shouldn't.

It's more of a "this is the way this is" thing. Maybe it's just me, I just think that if I start thinking in terms of "truth" or not, then somebody has to be right, and somebody has to be wrong in that equation....

As a parent, how would YOU want to be approached if your child felt as if they could not speak with you ???

I know what I would want, although I am not MLC...

Then again, we always say that MLC is NOT an excuse for their behavior....right ??

So I think straight up, in a non-attacking nature would be the best answer that I could give...

Don't try to fix it, or control it..

What would the old T-Deuce do ??

What does the new improved T-Deuce do ???

I think that he will know that answer , because that is how HE would want to be treated...

And it is about how you want to present yourself....right ???

Remember the whole J3B definition of tact....

Originally Posted By: J3B
Tact is the ability to tell someone to go to Hell, and they look forward to the trip

< hey, that quote thing ^^^ saved me a Nickel : )>



I would give into the whole Mr. Spock thing....

I just don't want to give you a geek-gasm this afternoon....

: )