It's interesting that you should mention that Bluesgal.
After the initial shock of finding out, and the hurt, hatred, high emotion, the PA was only an afterthought compared to what the EA felt like. (As many said would be the case)
Knowing that she loves this other person, and in fact has started another life with them is near unbearable at times. I was ready to throw in the towel, that is, until i spoke with my friend who is also going through this.
It gave me hope, It gave me inspiration. I remembered that i still love my w. This feeling isn't going to just go away. I'm willing to bear this until i can't anymore.
