cc, I've been gone over the weekend and now just catching up with posts.

I can see a change in you since last Friday. You went from high emotion to slow, deliberate choices that reflect your integrity. I'm sure your W can see your changes because I sure can. Your caring for your D is so inspirational for me to keep making good choices for the little people in our lives.

Have you decided if a PA is a deal breaker for you?

Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014