Wife Said She's Done

[OneDay]

LISTEN to her. DB'ing isn't a set routine, it's about trying different things, discarding what doesn't work, and keep doing what does work. What you're doing is not working. You're being cold and distant which is NOT the same thing as detaching.

Dam, I should have read this first I think I just did it again. I texted her and asked what time she was working until on Friday. She replied back 9-6. I then said OK, if you dont already have plans, Travis n I were planning on going out Friday Night. She replied back with I didnt yet, but have plans for Saturday Night.

This DB is not going well for me. It feels like everything I do is the wrong way. I thought I was suppose to GAL. Does that mean go out with friends? Do I need to ask permission from WAS First? Should I be going out, should I stay home. IM SO CONFUSED

Other GAL Ive been doing is going to church, working out and reading alot more than I ever have. I found this great book "Wild at Heart, Discovering the Secret of a Man's Soul" by John Eldredge. I've been reading it every night. I also just go DR in the mail, started on that today

PatientMan
Some of those were my goals, other where just accomplishments. I've been telling myself for a long time now that I need to quit dipping, and Im glad I did. The Drinking thing was at first for my Wife, but now that I've stopped I feel so much clearer, healthier and level headed, easier to wake in the morning, that I personally do not choose to go back to drinking. Now as for my goal that I personally want to live by are

1. To Follow and learn more from Christ. (I've been running from God for far to long)
2. Become a more Patient Man, with my kids, W, Family, Friends, Co-workers, etc.
3. To truly listen to people, and keep an open mind and not be quick to judge.
4. Continue Working out and being Healthy