W, You made the decision to brake us up and I don’t want to confuse the children or others about the two of us … me attending a little private birthday might just do exactly that
Let's go back to your very first post:
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But it all started when our first daughter was born. I didn’t pay enough attention to neither child nor mom – I worked. I was always busy with other things! I have been this way my whole life and now I have lost 3 girlfriends on that account. The first 2 was not that big a deal but this one I love, I want to spend the rest of my life with her and I am fed up with myself and the whole situation. Through the hole period of troubled times we have been talking every 3-6 months about what is wrong but it has only been talking – I haven’t made the changes that I should have. My girlfriend has felt left alone and her dream about a core family has been wrecked! My fault!
Clearly in that first post you were owning your faults in the R, but now it appears that you want to shift the blame to your W. Do you think that's fair to her?
