AT,

One other thing to consider: each time you jump through one of W's hoops you devalue yourself, and that makes you less attractive.

Try to get out of the mode of working to win her approval, that will not take you where you want to go.

Acc

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015