labug,

You are totally correct. I definitely have things about myself that I need to work on. A huge step for me was to actually voice my boundary. It really took a lot to basically say I want nothing to do with you while you are with OM. (While in reality I just want to be with her). The next step is to follow through.

I'm still trying to define myself physically, emotionally, and for once in my life, spiritually.

Who do I want to be. Who do I want to be for my daughter. Two different questions, but they can have the same answer.

Thanks SM, I have been following you as well, I'm sorry I don't post much. I don't often feel like I have the best answers!

You take care of you and yours!


M28 W27
D3
M 2years
Bomb 9/23/2013
Separated 11/17/2013
EA/PA Confirmed 12/5/13

Expecting Compliance is Control
What would you do, if you weren't Afraid?