My first question, as your friend and fellow Aspie mom, what are your state's laws on common law marriage, especially when children are the result?

Would you be able to ask for spousal support from him?

How much would you be able to expect in child support from him?

You don't need to tell your H about any of these questions. But, you need to know the answers.

Is your child eligible for disability?

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