Well talk with W last night was very productive. LTH your insight was priceless, thank you. We really discussed the whole situation and how hard everything is. W brought up a bunch of points about the things she is doing that I don't seem to notice. But after she pointed then out it definitely made things look different. I told her I'm not sure exactly how to handle these friendships because I realize she is lonely. Like she said, "she just wants some time with adults"
I told her its very tough because her making me happy means she would be unhappy. We are going to just try and have to figure out compromises as things come up. Starting with Christmas party next Friday that she really wants to go to . It starts at 6, I work till at least 9. My suggestion was that she goes at 6 and leaves at 9 when I get off to meet me at home.
Anyways, train seems to be back on the tracks.
Had the best sex last night since we've been back together. That was a plus:)


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it