I just want you to know that what you are doing, and what you are feeling, and the things that you are processing are turning you into the Man that you never thought that you could be...
And it isn't just changing you...
It is changing the dynamics in your entire life, and the legacy that you will leave your boys, that will affect the way they treat their spouse and children...
I am proud of you for making it this far....
Back away if you need. Think, and act, instead of reacting to the new information swirling around that noggin of yours....
Anytime I see someone on the cusp of a new reality, they back away from here for a time, and when the re-emerge, the personal growth is typically amazing (except Eric, that one failed)... : )
The answers that you are seeking right now....you are the only person that has them, so there is no reason to look here for them anyway....
What you may just find....is that you had them all the while, you were just asking the wrong questions....
