Thanks (((Wonka)). W made it out of surgery fine. I drove her parents back to the house and got them settled, got them dinner, walked the dogs, and came back to the hospital. I'm sitting in the chair now watching her doze in and out. She keeps waking asking me for a hug or a kiss, telling me she doesn't deserve me and that she loves me.
Every person (hospital employee) that enters the room she says, "This is my partner RT." ... that's a new "open" for her. Helloo dilaudid! The pain meds are making her say all sorts of sweet and wonderful things. Things I will always remember, but she probably won't.
Before surgery today she asked her parents to sign an updated Healthcare Power of Attorney as the two witnesses needed to complete her form giving making me the final decision in her care if it's needed, making me her Advocate. You know... marriage stuff for the almost divorced. Kind of odd, but then it shines a light on our true bond. The one that's stronger than the affair, stronger than the marital cracks.
I pray for her strength and mine.
Me(F):40 WAW:44 T:13yrs M:9yrs BD:2/12 (I saw a text) ILYBINILWY: 5/12 PA admission: 12/12 (began 3/11) S:2/13 Moves in w/AP D begins: 7/13 W moves home to R: 10/13
