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But the way she said it, it sounded like she was upset that she wouldn't be going.


You might be mind-reading a bit here, you think?

While I believe in leading with love, I also believe in protecting yourself and respecting yourself.

You told her to leave, you stated your boundary...what would be your real motivation for inviting her to your family celebration?


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss