Aiming for the PMA of a glow worm....pt 3

[3boymom]

What an awesome story! I can't wait to hear all about your son's reaction on Christmas morning. You both deserve a wonderful holiday after everything you have gone through.

[MileHigh]

Dang Like button still missing.

[Not Quitting]

I really hate my cell phone provider right now. My H and spent over an hour on the phone with them on the weekend splitting our phone account. Today I get the initial bill for my new account but can't access it online because the email address on file is wrong. Try to change the email account and get advised that I'm not authorized to make that change. It turns out that the cell phone provider has got the old joint account and both my H's new account and my new account all listed with H as primary account holder .

Now I've got to arrange with H to meet up so we can both talk to the cell phone provider and get his name removed from an account that he should never have been listed on in the first place. And to make things worse, one department confirmed that everything was set up right but the department I need says it's not and can't explain why the two records are different . Geesh.

[TryingToDo180]

Sorry to hear about the problems you're having There's always something isn't there? It's so annoying when things don't go according to plan and you've got to spend extra time trying to get it sorted. Hope you get it sorted soon

[2old]

NQ, I got sooooo tired of cell phone providers and the crap they deal out. 4 plus years ago went with straight talk thru walmart and it has been the best no contract service I have ever had!!!unlimited talk, text etc $45.00 per month...cant beat that with a stick!!

[chasingpavements]

My H does the exact thing, only first he criticizes me that I am not independent enough, and then when I start to do things my own way he criticizes how I do it.. I can't win either way!!

[TryingToDo180]

I know what you mean CP, lol. They like to feel that they are still needed

[TryingToDo180]

2old, our cable provider does a sim only contact with unlimited everything. As soon as this contract runs out, I'm on that

[Not Quitting]

As soon as my contract runs out I'll be shopping around. Unfortunately I'm only one year into the contract so it would cost a fortune to break it right now.

H did come round last night and spent over an hour on the phone with the provider. It looks like it has been sorted and we should get confirmation within two business days, so we'll see. He did tell them that no bills were being paid until we could access them online to see exactly what was being charged, so if they want their money they'll get everything sorted quickly.

H actually stuck around for a while after S13 went to bed last night. He was being nostalgic, talking about various times in our past together. He and my dad were chatting quite a bit as well, which is another thing H hasn't done for ages. He was saying that he's been having a bad time lately with his PTSD and commented about not having his back-up around these days. I sat there thinking "well, it was your choice to up and leave so of course your back-up isn't around". One thing I learned early in our M was how to help him through the bad patches with his PTSD.

[TryingToDo180]

It's really bad when you're there through their PTSD and they just decide to dump you at the drop of the hat! I've supported H all these years with his depression and anxiety attacks and this is how he repays me!