I can't sleep. The order I've requested to force xh to sign the title for my refi is with the judge. He will make his decision in the morning. Xh filed a response declaration which is completely misleading. He stated I want him to sign a transfer of ownership which is false. My declaration specifically states that the property will continue to be held as it is now. He also states that he doesn't understand my sudden urgency to refinance. Who is he kidding? He has been pressuring me to refinance for two years, but I couldn't do it without a support order. As as soon as I got one I started the process. Unfortunately, because it is a temporary order my broker had a heck of a time finding a lender who would accept it. I had to jump through hoops to get this done. The lender is waiting to close.
I don't know why I am surprised and upset by the response. Xh and his attorney have been untruthful from the beginning and have deliberately attempted to mislead the court. Their current action just strengthens my case for sanctions against them.
I just pray the judge doesn't consider xh's response and makes his decision based on my declaration which is truthful. I need this loan to close. I haven't been getting my ducks in a row all this time to fail when it counts the most. I am trying so hard to be faithful.
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Every single bit of positive energy I am sending your way today GM. If it gets tough you just visualize us standing with you. I'll be the one holding the Whack A Spouse Hammer.
GM, I hope that the judge will review the request carefully and sign off on it. They see so much of this stuff over the years, that they pretty much know who is truthful and who isn't, especially if your documentation is strong.
I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
I haven't heard anything yet. I sure hope the judge will make his decision based on what's best for my kids. Considering I have sole custody and having a much lower mortgage payment enables me to provide better for them it seems like an easy decision.
Gm, I am sorry to hear the judge didn't sign. What a frustrating development. Sometimes I think some of these judges have their own background issues that make them relate/sympathetic to the wrong party in cases like these.
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