I like the post you reposted from Labug and Mach. I feel like detachment comes in layers...we used to say like an onion. You peel a little away and you start to see what it is, what it feels, like, smells like and then something happens...and you realise there is more you can detach from, more you can peel away. As we let go of those fears, we peel away another layer. It took me a VERY long time to understand three aspects of detachment: 1. its not conscious 2. its all about fear. 3. When you think you are detached, there is often more work to do.
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
