S14 said to me he was glad I'm make enough money to stay in the house.....I told him a lot will depend on his dad and the judge.
Sweetie, do you recognize what's happening here?
S14 is feeling some mixture of anxiety and insecurity about this development. I sure hope you validated him! Another thing to remember is leave H and judge out of the discussion...it is not for S14 to know that the "grey men" make those BIG decisions in the shadows. In a way, you are painting H as the "bad guy" to your S14. How does that impact S14 hearing this in an indirect way? The implication is there.
Careful there...just a small bop on your head. No hard 2x4.
