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Originally Posted By: Whiterose
S14 said to me he was glad I'm make enough money to stay in the house.....I told him a lot will depend on his dad and the judge.


Sweetie, do you recognize what's happening here?

S14 is feeling some mixture of anxiety and insecurity about this development. I sure hope you validated him! Another thing to remember is leave H and judge out of the discussion...it is not for S14 to know that the "grey men" make those BIG decisions in the shadows. In a way, you are painting H as the "bad guy" to your S14. How does that impact S14 hearing this in an indirect way? The implication is there.

Careful there...just a small bop on your head. No hard 2x4. smile

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I can see how I could have handled that better.


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M 16 T 20
M 41 H 39 S 19 S 15
Bomb drop April 4;
Moved out April 13
D started-full force
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Dancing through the fire
Cause I am a champion and
you’re gonna hear me ROAR
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