I am glad to read about the conversation with H. I echo the others about zero expectations. I understand how hard that is...especially when they are being nice and seem like a bit of their old selves. I know I tend to blah blah when I start feeling comfortable with H, which I am sure has hindered things. My biggest challenge is to STFU. You seem like you have mattered that technique. I love the swan analogy....
I do hope H continues his path if self reflection and honesty....
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TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
