"Actually, I have no idea what you are talking about. Do you ever write a post that isn't critical?"
Sure I do. And this one isn't critical. The thing that I and others posted to you months ago was that if you don't try to work on forgiveness towards your W, you could end up filled with resentment and anger. This is what you're going through now.
"What is it you want me to say or do?"
I don't want you to say or do anything. Just making an observation. It's up to you what you want to do.
"Yes I resent her for causing me to miss my daughters Christmas concert. I resent the manipulation. I resent the conflict. In what world do you live in where this is not a normal reaction?"
The issue is that the two of you are feeding off each others resentment of one another. Both of you can't let go so you're doing things (whether intentional or not) that the other person can't stand which builds more resentment.
It's a never ending wheel until one person decides to stop. Right now the biggest losers are your kids.
It's up to you on whether or not you want to change this dynamic.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
