Thanks everyone for all of your comments, they have all been taken on board. Thanks for pointing this stuff out to me.

I have certainly given my wife far too much power over my emotions & that partly comes down to my personal beliefs & upbringing around marriage. This is something that is difficult to just switch off but I understand I need to.

Lots of stuff is still work in progress, but like I have said before I am pretty good & keeping this stuff under wraps when in front of my wife, I am only showing my inner thoughts & feelings here.

I saw my son for 2 hours this evening and wife seemed in a bad mood when I picked him up & dropped him off. I just stayed positive & upbeat throughout.


Me: 34, Wife: 34
Son: 2
Married: 8, Together: 14
Wife moved out 8/25/2013
Divorce papers received 01/10/2014