I am struggling to maintain detachment as my wife still lives with me but stated she 'feels disconnected from the marriage and it is over'. I started a post already, big susprise that, following instructions!

20 years married, 4 children, 2 still at home.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...668#Post2412668

me 41 w43
married 20 years
BD 10/10/13 ILYBNILWY....
4 kids, 21,18,8,6