I don't want to monitor, it isn't how I want to live and I have a tendency to obsess.
I think I have to forgive myself also.
I think if the M is strong the trust becomes somewhat natural as a strong M must include trust.
On a side note, I can remember trusting my W 200% and that is when I started to take her for granite. I am not saying that is why, but...
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy