Her actions are still showing that she is having a change of heart. I came home last night from work and she greeted me with a big hug and told me that she is glad I am home and she missed me. But still nothing has been said concerning us separating (she went from wanting D to S).
I read back through your posts and I don't think she's having a change of heart at all. It reminds me a lot of my sitch just before W left.
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Her actions are now showing me one thing, but I have admitted that I have snooped through her emails (which I stopped doing) and saw that she was emailing looking for an apartment.
My W did something similar- once she started looking for her own place she really cranked up the charm. By all appearances it seemed like we were doing better together than we had in months. But on the few times I asked her about her search she made it clear it was still full steam ahead with S.
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She also told me the other day that she has consulted with a lawyer to see what her rights were, and she told me that the question that she had for the lawyer was if she leaves the house would that be considered her abandoning her child.
My W did the exact same thing before leaving for the same reason.
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I am very skeptical here as to what she is thinking/feeling and if she has some type of motive behind all of this
There's probably no motive, if she's like my W she probably just sees the "light and the end of the tunnel" (solidifying her plans to leave) and feels like the pressure is being lifted since she'll be out soon.
