My mistrust and suspicion of him , although no doubt deserved - became obsessive for me. If you read my first post in this thread you will get the idea. Not only did I check up on him, but it was always just there simmering. And I hated it, i hated it about myself. I used to be so self assured. I think he felt violated but resigned to it.
I still have access to check things like his cell phone bill. And I have done so recently, wondering if someone else was part of this divorce plan. But I know I have to stop. Should I tell him to change his password?
For one, it would stop me from aggravating myself and wondering about each text message. And aslo, it would show him that I agreed it was a problem and I want it to stop.
