Pud, that is an excellent idea about a written-out budget showing where all my paycheck goes…as much for me, as for H. I KNOW I pay for 90% or more of everything currently and am super careful with our money because I cannot depend on him at all, right now. So, this will help me keep everything in perspective when he is blaming everything on me.
And, PM, I AGREE….texting and Facebook are NOT good! LOL. I am really good about staying off FB. I just pretend like H does NOT exist online….but I still get sucked into the texting thing sometimes.