That's pretty much my idea as well, Jack.

This summer when I told my W I forgave her, I even gave myself a consequence if I did ever use what I forgave her for as a weapon or tool to get what I want (well, you cheated so I deserve a Porsche)...that I would automatically forfeit the discussion, even if "I was right"...and man, she knows how much I would hate THAT...to forfeit even if I was absolutely correct... lol wink


In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus

Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm