Wife wants Divorce, I do Not

[MrBond]

"Kinda getting pissed at the whole deal.

I love her more than anything but the thought of being strung along...husband being plan b...no."

Really? So you didn't live up to your obligation as a husband and made HER Plan B. So now she finds someone that makes her a priority when you didn't and you get upset?

Didn't you write the post below?

"My wife and I have been having trouble for sometime. I haven't been living up to my duties as a husband. I haven't respected, acknowlwdged, complimented, given bad looks, upset when I feel she wasn't doing enough for the house, haven't satisfied emotion needs, listened, etc.

I have hurt her so much. These behaviors have occured before. We would talk, work it out, and I would return to old behaviors after some months. "

Suck it up. These are the consequences of what you did. Just because suddenly you've "seen the light" doesn't mean that she has to see things your way. You're still acting selfishly. That's what she's seeing.