T^2, I really needed to read this today. In a very good M, I should think forgiveness and trust would be constantly functioning in both spouses. And who wouldn't want to have a spouse that forgave and trusted you!
Thanks for bringing this up and thanks, Jack, for highlighting it!
rH
P.S. When I read your post about the chili and the song from ZZ top, I immediately heard that in my head -- it was perfect. We saw them in live concert earlier this year.
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway