Shutting the F*ck Up

[BrightFuture]

Ambiv, this is an interesting observation about switching the roles.

and who wants to be a backup plan after YEARS of knowing someone?

Pud, this is exactly what that Mexican girl told my H in one of the e-mails. I think she was looking for validation or promise that it would not be case, because she still liked him. He told her that our R was over and he had no emotional attachment to me. Except at that time he still came to the house to finish painting the doors, we had joint accounts, I paid his bills and he had most of his clothes here.