I think that forgiveness for our self, is more of a feeling rather than a choice, or decision...
One day you may just wake with a peace over you, and you know without a shadow of doubt, that you did the best that you could...
Where do feelings come from? Thinking, then choices, then decisions, maybe?
Dammit Jim..... (Doc McCoy)
Yes. Feelings follow your choices and decisions in life. You make a choice to do something and those feelings follow. Hence the "In Love" fuzziness versus the conscious decision to "Love" someone.
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