Wife Said She's Done

[OneDay]

Melissag,
What is strange with my situation is that she is not really angry. She was when I told her I was moving back home. But now everything seems decent, not great, but decent. She is defiantly more reserved in her emotions, kinda neutral when we talk. (does that make sense) Id say we are like room mates.

SM34,
I can defiantly tell you multiple times within the last year (before the big bomb) where she was really on edge. Like I've never seen before. She was frustrated at me, the kids, homework, you name it. I would get text in all caps Stating " IM SO EFFin OVER IT, I JUST GO HOME, THE HOUSE IS A WRECK, HOMEWORK ISNT EVEN STARTED, I HAVENT THOUGHT ABOUT DINNER" etc etc. I would try and calm her down by saying dont worry, I'll pick up dinner on the way home, and I'll help the boys with homework, save some for me. etc etc. I was always trying to help/reassure her. So when I got home I would go above and beyond my normal duties(which were alot) an help out with kids and around the house in hopes of alleviating some of her stress.

I thought is was because she is working more than she ever has. (she has only worked 2, sometimes 3 half days a week since we've been married. Now this last year I was forced to take a different job with poor pay and no benefits. So she knew she would have to pick up more shifts and I thought this was the main cause of her stress.

Now this is not to say that she's held alot, A TON of stuff inside and never told anyone. She told me she went to counseling one time after the D talk and said she told the counselor things she's never told, or thought she could tell anyone. I asked why she only went once, and she said that its too expensive. I suggested she go back no matter the cost, for her own well-being.