It's Not Over 'Till It's Over

[Fight4MyWife]

Hi Wonka,

Thanks for checking in, I really appreciate it.

I'm doing OK. I put on my PMA in front of my wife when picking up my son the other night & then didn't have time to think about much else for 24 hours because I was busy entertaining & taking care of my son.

There have been a couple of things really playing on my mind the last couple of days that I feel tempted to mention to my wife, however I know I probably shouldn't & that she doesn't really care what I think at the moment anyway.

I have been thinking that if she did ever have any doubts at all about this separation that I don't think she would act on it because she will think she has gone too far now to go back.

Firstly by telling all of her friends & family of what has happened and her intentions, & having that social circle also supporting her actions, she would find it almost impossible to then admit to them she has changed her mind.

Secondly, by visiting lawyers and organising mediation, speaking to various other professional sources & changing her address with everyone she will feel she has gone too far to go back. Especially if she has spent money on Lawyers etc, even more so if her parents paid.

If she did have second thoughts she would find it too hard to admit to anyone so she would dismiss/suppress the thoughts & carry on with the separation.

These things really make me want to say something to her like "It doesn't matter how far things have gone and what people might think, it is never too late".