Shutting the F*ck Up

[Pudmuddle]

Ugh, portia, sorry it is rough for you. I cringed when I read your H said he was "interested" in dating someone. My H told me when I found out about his then EA, "we have a mutual interest". That hurt, when I found out he had been lying and thought AW was an answer to his issues.

I agree with job. It's sad they look to external sources to solve their happiness and who knows if they ever will grow up? and who wants to be a backup plan after YEARS of knowing someone?

Sending hugs your way.