I agree with job, don't think you blew it because you asked where the money is going. He needs to step up and be a responsible man. He is totally out of line. He does need to grow up a bit.
I'm thinking maybe start a written out budget and leave it out so he can see where all the money you get goes. I'm sure you are not frivolous with all them chillen's.
I honestly don't think with the way he is right now that there isn't much that would set him off. I'm sorry you have to bear the brunt of that. You really are doing well, and I definitely think you should do this more for yourself, since he cannot be trusted with anything emotional.
Keep posting to us, you have lots of love and support here.
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