Wife says she wants to leave (Part 2)

[melissag]

C, thanks for this:

"You can choose regret, self pity, revenge, spite, and anger, but all of that leads to divorce anyway. If you want to salvage anything, you need to do what is right, and that is love. In the end, we cannot make them come back to us. But I will feel a lot better about myself saying I did everything I could the right way. I showed love and grace. And love wins."

I think I know this already, but this was said so well, and a good reminder.

I am glad you are feeling better this morning. And good job setting boundaries.

I don't have a lot to add but just wanted to let you know I am still following your thread. I can tell how painful this is for you and I am glad you have figured out where you need to be with all this. Keep on keepin' on, C!