WR, I'm so glad you and the boys had a good weekend. The fresh air and walking around outside did all of you some good. I'm sure your tree looks great.
Thank goodness your dad came to your rescue on your car situation. I'm just glad it didn't go out w/you driving it. Glad to see the tenant is going to fix your lock for you. One more thing off your list of to dos.
As for your h and his Bill Murray picture. He could have been referring to himself and his situation. No one can read their minds and sometimes they do tend to selection songs, photos, quotes, etc. to describe themselves. I don't think it was directed towards you.
WR, I'm going to tell you the same thing I just told WH, judges see this kind of stuff all of the time and if your documentation is strong, they'll know who is honest and who isn't. The most important thing is to have eye contact w/the judge and stay calm. If you are asked questions, answer them as honestly as you can in a very calm and even tone.
I know you are worried, but try to relax a bit.
Hang in there!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.