I had to chuckle... I am not stupid....H was so handsome and witty and sexy, it spun my head around! We have different politics, I like literature and h likes the comics. none of that mattered....he liked me because I was strong and independent and social.
honestly, I would be more so bothered if ow was someone with intelligence or a great job( I am being judgemental here of course basing what I know about her only by her employement)She is one of thousands in h's company.
The real story here is that I am judgemental.
the real story here is I don't like h's company. Although it has provided us a good income/life. I feel( wrongly and with my judgement showing) that a lot of his job is kiss-oss .
H felt my disdain, my eye-rolling,my snide remarks.
H chose his job over his family.
Yes, I would love to unpack this and Let It Go!!!

Ruby as always thank you for checking in...


M48 H50
M21 T26
S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old
PA confirmed 7/2012
H separates 9/2012
H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY
OW still in picture. h filed 10/13