Originally Posted By: willbwell
What matters to me is I feel h is making a stupid choice. I don't like thinking of h as being stupid


This is very important WB. Once you start to unpack this, I think you are going to be moving forward again.

We all feel not good enough and we struggle some days. I say everybody because no matter how awesome one is, something comes along to cast doubt on our wonderfulness. What is key is the self talk that brings you away from that low.

If H was stupid and let's say it was always in him to be "stupid" what does that say about you?