I'm not afraid to take a stand.......

[Whiterose]

Hi ladies.

Weekend was good. Kinda. Drove to a job Friday night, to do set up, and parked my van. Went to move it and there was no steering or brakes. Had to get it towed to the mechanic. Went back to work at 2am a friend picked me up. Saturday my dad met with the mechanic and it was my power steering. Needed to get replace and because it went the brakes seized so those had to get done too. My dad paid. It's like a $500 bill. I did some housework and my tenant worked on the lock of one of the doors as I think the inside spring is gone. He couldn't figure it out before he had to go to work and is home on the island right now but will take it to a lock smith for me at some point. Which I'm very grateful for.
Sunday morning the boys and I, and the dog, did some cute family photos. Some with a Christmas theme and I got them done up as a Christmas card. Will replace the photos with h with the new ones. I took off my wedding band in the photos but have since put it back on. Went and did our annual, with my sister and her family, cutting of the Christmas tree. We were there about an hour or so. I tagged us all in on twitter/fb and h messaged S19 to ask how it was going as we were leaving actually. S was surprised. Said 'oh look who's messaging me". I said he probably is becaause he saw were here. Asked what S19 was up to and S said I'm going to the Canucks game tonight. H said "again?" Pretty much their coversation. Came home and S14 and I got the tree into the stand. It's crooked so I'm going to have to get tentant to help me straighten it. It's decorated so we'll have to be careful. My mom's 63rd birthday today so we all got together last night for pizza and cake. At 4:30 h changed his fb profile pic to one of bill Murray pointing a finger saying "you su(k". I'm guessing that one is for me, although I'm blocked so really can't see it. His sisters and mom all "liked" it.

I'm getting more and more nervous about Friday. H cannot determine how my child support is spent. I do. She has asked for the statements of his visas to determine how much of it is family debt. I wonder if h is as nervous as me? I kiddo thinking what if the judge thinks h is right and I'm difficult and a b1tch and feels bad for h.? That I'm using my boys?

Thanks for the support ladies!!