In your situation, more than others, SHOWING that you finally "get it" is going to be key.
"Get it" meaning acknowledgment of the affair, where I went wrong and WE went wrong, our marriage is over, that her and I are moving forward?
UM, we mean what YOU need to work on, which is NOT a discussion of an affair she had not even admitted having, not to mention that if she is having one, she has justified it totally.
Your condemnation of it will only fuel her desire to leave and her justifications. Did you even read what I posted to you??
SHOW her thru your actions that you are a changing man...say nothing of her flaws...you are not in a position to be telling her anything about HER problems
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
