Look what the cat dragged in! (TL) - Act 2

[tigerlily78]

Well, therapy today was tough. I think my therapist is determined that I put H on the fast track to somewhere and I think she has convinced herself already that he isn't worth my waiting more than a month or so more in the current situation and then he is going to have to pick *A* home and change up the circumstances. Either decide he is all in for the OW (I am pretty sure this would be what he would choose if forced to), or staying here and starting to work on our R.

At the very least she thinks if he cares about our son at all and the longterm effect of the household stress on him, that H should get himself into therapy.

Ugh. If he would do even that ONE thing (therapy) then I wouldn't feel like having to press for a change in the living situation. It would give me at least a little hope that he was THINKING about this situation in a more productive and reflective way... not just content to coast along "waiting" for something to change in how he feels, while being extra content with the idea of NOT initiating any changes to the situation that WOULD result in evolving the emotional landscape.