That's all you can do SP, keep moving on. Sounds like you're doing ok, just be patient and let things work out like they're supposed to for you.
I've been all over the spectrum with churches from being crazy 3 times a week to having stuff happen in a church with a youth pastor (not with me) where my whole faith was rocked. Thankfully about 3 years ago I found the right church for me with a good kids program and a strong men's ministry that I'm now a part of. Getting the right church and small group has been a huge part of helping me move forward.
Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are
