Crimson, I get that, it's just what flashed in my mind as I was reading. smile

I don't think you're being inflexible in this instance but I think I also understand the choice she made.

Now you've made your stand clear, hopefully it won't be an issue in the future.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss