Thank you! I appreciate any feedback. And you're right, some professions simply require people who have a need for validation. It drives them and curses them.
For all I know, he has been in MLC since I met him, staving it off by winning elections. I do think he is depressed. I do know he was having some problems and using Viagra prior to us stopping sex. I know that he will not discuss it in anyway.
Things just got so distant on both of our parts when the intimacy stopped. I also know he ended a relationship like this before, by withholding sex for a long time.