I said that's ok, but just remember that I've got issues as well and when she gets low she brings me down as well.
I remember by ex best friend saying that to me. When all I do is talk about the W, it brings them down and upsets them. It was true and I wish I had learnt my lesson back then. But then again saying that, I would also think a best friend is there to help support me at times, especially these dark times. But alas, it didn't happen, or maybe he simply wasn't the best friend I thought he was. And maybe I am just rambling on as well.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.