I am not so sure they worship the ground you walk on necessarily. Everyone is different. But hHe is very lucky that you stood for him and the marriage when many others would have walked away.
Yes, the lack of transparency and hiding things could be a problem. The thing is that trust has to be earned back for you. And you need to define what it means to you.
But also the fact that he feels that way concerns me a bit. More for your sake, then his right now. That he feels you should have no issues and just be thankful.
And you should never stop growing and looking within.
