I initiated a sideways hug today while we were walking. She reciprocated but it felt like she was squeezing me hard to where it was hard to walk next to her without us stepping on each other. I think that was positive so ill try some light stuff here and there and report back.

Mrbond you are right, the theories won't get her back. They are more helpful to understand BEFORE the breakup, to be able tp have a healthy marriage.

She just called me (very unusual because usually we text) about how D3 did at school and what to do tonight, what to eat, what should she make for dinner etc. Kind of married people convo. Confusion.

I'm going to roll with it and see. Perhaps, just maybe, the affair is fading.... its right around the one year so...maybe? Who knows.

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017