"You're My Best Friend"

[reachingHigher]

That upset me too, uRw. I always heard here that MLCers would practically kiss the ground you walked on when they come back.

Our MC asked me privately how long I thought my H would be like this. I said he mentioned until he was 50! She said I could be right, until he is fully mature.

I had a friend whose H went through a 10-year MLC. She said after a few years things got better but it still took the full ten years. That could be the case here as well. Idk.

H said he came back b/c he felt comfortable here. Maybe he feels comfortable growing here. He scored an 8 out of 10 on a happiness marriage survey. But he is still not completely transparent with me. Still hides things.

Is that the sort of red flag you mean? Don't feel like his crisis is fully over? Be sure to keep DBing and growing personally? Give him plenty of space?

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He left the toilet paper roll empty without replacing it......NAUGHTY !!!