He said he has been perplexed that I should question anything. He said that "counselors" of his have said that had I realized how very far he was GONE I should be nothing but overjoyed he came back!
IOW, I should've had NO issues this year!
How interesting! I think he s/b OVERJOYED he has a home to come back to, and he thinks I s/b OVERJOYED he came back!
I think both are true.
So....maybe that's why I didn't get The Great Apology? We see life through different lenses.
Rh, the only way I know how to be is honest. And the truth is, that upset me a bit. I hope that you said that both are true, because they are.
You certainly do see things through different lenses. I have to say that it is a bit of a flag to me to hear him say those things. It is something that should be addressed at some point.
When reconnection is new, there are certain things that shouldnt be addressed until both parties are on a strong, healthy ground. Once they are, certain things should not be swept under the rug, ya know?
Issues need to be talked about. Otherwise resentment sets in.
